TY - JOUR
T1 - A time to be silent and a time to speak
T2 - intergenerational family narrative and father loss before birth
AU - Possick, Chaya
AU - Pitcho-Prelorentzos, Shani
AU - Mahat-Shamir, Michal
N1 - Publisher Copyright:
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PY - 2023/1/1
Y1 - 2023/1/1
N2 - This qualitative study explored the intergenerational family narratives around loss and bereavement as perceived by 12 Israeli adults, whose fathers died before they were born. Using the interpretative phenomenological analysis approach, the intergenerational narrative process was examined as it appeared in in-depth, semi-structured interviews. Three phases of this process were identified: (1) the first generation: establishing the rule of silence, (2) the second generation: obeying the rule of silence, and (3) the third generation: breaking the rule of silence. The discussion presents a nuanced examination of the functions of silence in family narration in the case of traumatic loss, its impact on children whose fathers died before they were born, and the notion of the timing and processing of intergenerational dialogues of loss between grandparents, parents, children, and grandchildren. Practical implications include the importance of recognizing the need for a careful balance between silence and speech, both for the family as a unit and for its grieving members. Also, family therapists should consider incorporating three-generation therapy sessions in cases of parent loss in general, and father loss before birth in particular.
AB - This qualitative study explored the intergenerational family narratives around loss and bereavement as perceived by 12 Israeli adults, whose fathers died before they were born. Using the interpretative phenomenological analysis approach, the intergenerational narrative process was examined as it appeared in in-depth, semi-structured interviews. Three phases of this process were identified: (1) the first generation: establishing the rule of silence, (2) the second generation: obeying the rule of silence, and (3) the third generation: breaking the rule of silence. The discussion presents a nuanced examination of the functions of silence in family narration in the case of traumatic loss, its impact on children whose fathers died before they were born, and the notion of the timing and processing of intergenerational dialogues of loss between grandparents, parents, children, and grandchildren. Practical implications include the importance of recognizing the need for a careful balance between silence and speech, both for the family as a unit and for its grieving members. Also, family therapists should consider incorporating three-generation therapy sessions in cases of parent loss in general, and father loss before birth in particular.
KW - Family narrative
KW - father loss
KW - intergenerational transmission of trauma
KW - orphanhood
KW - trauma narrative
UR - http://www.scopus.com/inward/record.url?scp=85107990456&partnerID=8YFLogxK
U2 - 10.1080/13229400.2021.1942959
DO - 10.1080/13229400.2021.1942959
M3 - Article
AN - SCOPUS:85107990456
SN - 1322-9400
VL - 29
SP - 525
EP - 542
JO - Journal of Family Studies
JF - Journal of Family Studies
IS - 2
ER -